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Underage Drinking and Violence
Leslie Strawn, Prevention
Specialist ASPEN
Throughout our lives we
are all faced with challenges and choices. For teenagers, one of the hardest
choices to make is deciding what to do when approached with drinking. With the
media portraying drinking as a “right of passage” or “the cool thing to do” we
need to be conscious of the consequences that can come with underage drinking
if we do not educate teens on the issues and responsibilities of alcohol use.
Alcohol is the most widely
used and abused drug among youth and can lead to violence against others and
violence towards themselves. Adolescents, age 12 to 17, who use alcohol, are
more likely to report behavioral problems, especially aggressiveness, delinquent,
and criminal behaviors, according to the findings of a new study released by
the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration.
According to the Healthy
Youth Survey in
Alcohol use can also
intensify the ever present pressures in teen dating relationships. Dating
violence can have serious effects such as emotional problems, physical
injuries, and possible death. Women
ages 16 to 24 experience the highest per capita rates of intimate violence,
nearly 20 per 1000 women. (Bureau of
Justice Special Report: Intimate Partner Violence, May 2000). Dating violence can
take many forms; it may not always be physical violence. Emotional abuse may
take the form of extreme jealousy, insults, put downs, threats, or attempts to control a person’s every move. Sexual abuse,
which is classed as any kind of unwanted sexual advance or contact, including
unwelcome kissing or sexual comments, is another form of dating violence.
There
are several questions you can ask yourself to help decide if your son or
daughter is in a violent relationship: Does he or she have unexplained
injuries? Does he or she get frequent phone calls demanding his or her
whereabouts at all times? Has he or she given up his or her favorite hobbies?
Does he or she feel nervous or fearful around his or her partner? Has there
been a sudden change in his or her appearance or style of clothing? If you
answered “yes” more than once, it is important to address the issue of dating
violence with your teen now.
So how do we help our
teenagers avoid alcohol use and violent relationships? Be supportive, listen
without judging, make a safety plan, learn about the issues you need to talk
about, and be a good role model when it comes to alcohol use and violence.
There are great websites and local resources available for parents and teens to
learn more about dating violence: www.ndvh.org, www.ncvc.org
and www.rainn.org.
Leslie has worked
very closely with
The
Kittitas County Community Network/Drug Free Communities Coalition and the
Community Network agency, through a federal Drug Free Communities grant, are
implementing the “Start Talking Before They Start
Drinking” campaign as a community service for parents. For more information go to
www.kccn-dfc.com.