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Underage Drinking and Teen Sexuality
Amy Claussen M.Ed.
Underage drinking and teen sexual activity
are two topics that most parents and adults would prefer to never think about
(let alone talk about); and even more so when the topics are combined in the
same sentence. I can’t say that I blame
them; these two topics can be pretty scary.
However, regardless of the fear factor, it is our job as adults to stay
aware of these critical issues, especially ones that so directly affect our youth.
Let’s take a moment to look at some local data
regarding youth alcohol and drug abuse. According to the Healthy Youth Survey
results from 2006, it is very clear that many of the youth in
It probably isn’t a big
shock to anyone that numerous national studies have also shown the correlation
between adolescent drug and alcohol abuse and increased risky sexual activity.
Risky behaviors such as: the early onset of sexual activity (before the age of
16), multiple partners and unprotected intercourse, which clearly puts them at
risk for unplanned pregnancy, sexually transmitted infections, and the
life-threatening virus HIV (The American Academy of Pediatrics).
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Teens who
report drinking alcohol on at least one occasion are seven times more likely to
have had sexual intercourse than nondrinkers.
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Binge
drinkers, like those who have ever used drugs, are three times more likely to
have contracted an STD than nonproblem drinkers and nondrug users.
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Alcohol is
more closely linked to sexual violence than any other drug and is a common
companion to rape, including date rape. Alcohol use, by the victim, the
perpetrator or both, is implicated in 46 to 75 percent of date rapes of college
students.
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Source: The
Parents are the greatest
source of education for their children to learn healthy and positive messages
about life, and in particular drugs, alcohol and sexual activity. There are so many teachable moments in a day
that can be taken advantage of; we just need to have the courage and strength
to do it. In fact, most children report
that they want their parents to talk to them about these issues, but few have
had parents who started the conversation.
Having taught numerous
parenting classes to many nervous parents wishing to speak to their kids about
sex, here is my advice to you: Take the risk and start the conversation. If you are uneasy, welcome to the club, you
are not alone! Create the opportunity to
speak to your children about your values and morals and your family’s
expectations of them. Be ready to listen to your child and discuss their
concerns. Of course the conversations
may be uncomfortable, but I am confident that we love our children more than
any discomfort that conversation will bring.
The
Kittitas County Community Network/Drug Free Communities Coalition and the
Community Network agency, through a federal Drug Free Communities grant, are
implementing the “Start Talking Before They Start
Drinking” campaign as a community service for parents. For more information go to
www.kccn-dfc.com.